The Choking Game

A 10-year-old boy who died after hanging himself from a tree is apparently the second Idaho youth killed while playing a choking game.

The Fremont County sheriff’s office said Dalton Eby apparently was playing a game known as the “pass-out game,” trying to cut off the oxygen supply to his brain to achieve a type of “high.”

And,

Six girls at the Nampa school were suspended for a day after school officials reviewed a security camera videotape that showed the seventh graders choking each other in a hallway.

I remember doing a lot of stupid things when I was a kid.  But, I survived.  We held our breath, that was about the worst of it.  I didn’t like suffocating for any reason, so I quickly quit that “game” other than sometimes diving too deep in water.

Parents, it’s time to teach your children with a little more detail that choking for any reason, including choking yourself, is neither fun nor a game.  A lot of kids die from asphyxiation each year.  I don’t know if there’s a statistic for how many die from intentional asphyxiation ( the choking games ).  Darwin’s Law is a powerful force tho.  It’s up to those that have survived to make sure the next generation does as well.  I’m sure there’s a lot of adults out there that are alive today because their parents told them that they never should choke themselves to death.

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  • Moonage

    Well, several of my friends are dead from doing stupid things while stoned. So, can’t advocate messin yourself up just because you’re foolin yourself. Personally, I’ve never known anyone who killed themself choking themselves. So, from my point of view, getting stoned is more likely to get ya killed. How’s about this, don’t do either? What’s so bad about life that you can’t face it sober?

  • Belva

    hello my name is Belva and im doing a research paper on the choking game there has been a death in our area and im also doing a FCCLA speech on this topic because i think it is improtant that people know about this “game” if anyone has any info on the choking “game” you can email me at cowgirl_241@hotmail.com thank you and Im sorry for every one who has lost a loved one to this stupid “game” i mean why would you risk killing yourself just to get a 5 to 10 second high i think this is so so stupid

  • Lynda

    My God!!! What is this world coming to?? I cant believe my eyes reading all these horrifying stories,I wanted to read more on this subject , because I just heard on TV about the choking game and how they found a 17 year old that went to a party and they played the game, and Oh what Great friends he had!! NOT!!! his friends left him in an upstairs bedroom and forgot about him, Im sure you know the rest….. yes he died, it was his first time trying it and look what hapened! you young teens out there think its a JOKE to do things to get that 5 minute high, not thinking at all what could happen to you, are you that STUPID to think your Invinsible? Do you ever stop to think about your parents, friends and family, , why do such a Tragic thing when life is already to short..I can’t even imagine in my Wildest dreams who would be that stupid to want to actually Choke themselves!!!!!!I think it should be talked about in all the schools and let the students know exactly how Dangerous this so-called game really is!! I’m still in shock and still can’t believe ANYONE in their right mind would do something as STUPID as this!! It makes me sick to read all the things teens will do just to get high, CAN’T YOU GET HIGH ON LIFE?????OR WOULD YOU LIKE IT BETTER IF YOU WERE 6 FEET UNDER???….. SIGNED, DISGUTED

  • rene

    ive lost a few friends but not over something as STUPID as this we learned about this in health class but i never thought that so many young bright kids have died while doing this so called game. after reading this i cant think of why some people will still be dumb enough to try this ALONE OR WITH FRIENDS!!! why would they want to put there friends and family in the position of losing them to this game i think that everyone should know about this, nomatter what age!!

  • people

    Remind me to leave a suicide note, if I ever kill myself. I’d rather be remembered as someone with depression than a complete retard who couldn’t even put two and two together.

    drugs + body = high
    rope + neck = dead

    I think some of these deaths were real suicides. Family and friends often don’t want to accept a suicide especially when there were no acknowledged warning signs and would rather accept that a person was a moron. I’ve seen it myself a few times.

  • Michele

    I lost a friend to this game , I beleieve. He was alone for just an hour. His parents one at a neighbors. When they came back they found him. He had afwul marks around his neck and his face was purple. His family and friends have gone thru so much. Oh….if only he knew. I would much rather be dead , he didn’t deserve to die. People cared about him, noone cares about me.

    R.I.P
    Richard
    July 14,1991-June 8,2006

  • Moonage

    That’s probably what he thought as well. People care, you just don’t see it every day unless you look.

  • Teresa

    MY DAUGHTER HAD AN EX BOY FRIEND WHO TRIED THE CHOKING GAME BY HIMSELF . AND NOW HE’S GONE AND ALL MY DAUGHTER HAS TO REMEMBER HIM BY IS PICS AND GOOD MEMORIES I BELIEVE IF HE WAS STILL HERE THEY WOULD BE BACK TOGETHER FOR SURE. IT’S BEEN ALMOST A YEAR AND IT STILL DOESN’T GET ANY EASIER FOR HIS FAMILY OR FRIENDS. THANK YOU FOR REDING THIS R. I. P. KYLE WILL MISS YOU ESPECIALLY MY DAUGHTER CHELSEA AND MOM AND SISTER LARRIN JULY 29TH 2005 TERESA

  • gabriela

    i did the game ounce except i was breathing cause i knew it was bad.My friend started the game.Now i saw on the computer how many people die of it.It makes me real sad. I’ll never play that game again. It’s the a really stupid game

  • gabriela

    I ONCE PLAYED THAT GAME. NEVER AGAIN WILL I DO IT.ARE PEOPLE STUPID PLAY IT WITH FRIENDS OR BY UR SELF.THAT IS STUPID. BY THE NAME OF THE GAME EVERYONE KNOWS HOW THE GAME GOES.CHOKING UR SELF IS HOW U PLAY IT.DON’T DO IT. LOVED ONES WILL B REMEMBERED.

  • jones

    I lost a cousin to this AeA game this year. We did not see any of the warning signs. But he had been doing this for a while. The only time that we saw him was doing the summer and vacation time.

  • Nel

    We lost our dear son during June 2006. No warning signs nothing, we never knew such a stupid game exists, LET THE PEOPLE KNOW! At least that way parents can warn their children of the danger. We mourne you our dear son and miss you terribly

  • Moonage

    It is amazing to me at this time how many people this has affected. It is still rarely ever mentioned in the media, or by professionals for that matter. I have done what I can to get the message out here. The people I think that will have a much bigger impact are people like you sharing your stories with anyone that will listen. My condolences to your family. I have a boy of my own, I can’t imagine what I’d do if something like this happened to him.

  • Sean

    I just heard about this game and am disgusted by it. I was just wondering if anyone knows any web sites that promote this game? I would like to give the people who make thoughs web sites a piece of my mind…

  • Moonage

    I looked around when I was originally doing this post and found very little on the topic. Definitely nothing promoting it. It’s so stupid I doubt any kid has the nerve to admit doing it publicly. If you do find something, please let me know.

  • Sean

    Will do, but if I do find anything it probably won’t be around for long if u know what I mean…

  • Moonage

    Message received and understood. I can’t imagine you having any luck finding one, at least I hope not. But, as I’ve pretty much figured out a long time ago, if it’s really, really, really stupid, it’s on the ‘net somewhere.

  • http://joyinthemorning.clubmom.com/ Loni

    I am thankful to see people are still reading from your initial post. This game is deadly. We know, it killed our son.

  • Moonage

    Yes they definitely are. The response on this post has been pretty amazing. I just wish there was more out there on this topic to compete with my post.

  • Sean

    I was just wondering if you have been to this forum?

    http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=116515&hl=choking+game

    You need to register and then search for “choking game” and you will find a blog on it called “choking game”. It should be on the first half of the page but in the blog there are people who talk about how stupid it is and how some admit that they have done it. I’m sure they wouldn’t mind more input…

  • http://StillLovingMyGabriel.com sarah pacatte

    http://DEADLYGAMESCHILDRENPLAY.COM

    Since losing my precious,intense,funny,daring,loving son Gabriel on May 6, 2005 from this ‘high risk, thrill seeking’, wicked activity, over 135 others have fallen victim to it…

    …Education, Warning and Information are the tools needed to prevent deaths and damage from this ‘game’.. It’s the only way to arm your children .. INFORM THEM..

    IGNORANCE IS ANYTHING BUT BLISS….

    Sarah Pacatte, Gabriel Mordecai’s mom

    StillLovingMyGabriel.com

  • WonderWall

    Hey, I am doing a research paper for my English class and I woudl really appreciate it if you could give me information on the choking game or if you would be willing, a personal story…Anything on this topic would be really helpful and I would greatly appreciate it. Please and thank you. My email is marsdixo98@yahoo.com

  • http://moonagewebdream.blogs.com/storms_counter_terrorism/ StormWarning

    Wonderwall: Did you bother to read the posts and comments in this thread?

    I guess “its a wonder.”

  • Amy

    I was always aware of this “game”, as my brother and his friends used to do this to eachother about 15 years ago or so…I used to think they were so stupid but never really knew how dangerous this was until I got older and read or heard the stories…Today, however, I was reminded of this so called game when my 10 year old son’s guidance/adjustment counselor called me at work to let me know that my son was choking himself today in class. Thankfully his teacher noticed what he was doing before he passed out. Of course I went right to the school to talk to him and warn him of the dangers of this “game”…and I am thankful that I have had the chance to warn him! He didn’t realize the risks. He said that he knew of a few other kids that were doing it too, but says he figured it out on his own. The school said they were aware of a few kids doing this and were working on it with their families, but what I want to know is why weren’t the rest of us made aware of this. Had I known that this was going on in the school, I would have been able to talk to my son before this incident today! I am very disappointed that the school didn’t take more action and make us parents more aware of what our childrens peers are doing!

    Now I feel it is my duty to make more people aware of this deadly game!

  • Tim A Goodnight

    It never occured to me that this was a factor of life or death in my family. I would not ever believed it! (Not my Kid!) After attending my boy’s funeral, I’m a believer but it’s to late. Believe what you want but Doug came into a dream one night and told me “Dad, I did a stupid thing, I had alot of friends” The effects on the family for such a needless cause are horrific. This game is out there parents. As Doug always pushed the limits, Play it Alone and you will certainly,eventually die. Tim A Goodnight Doug-11/08/89 to (unsure) July 27th 2005.

  • Moonage

    Another kid died from playing this game yesterday.  He was 12 years old. Apparently this kid learned about the choking game at school.  Parents, it’s apparently up to us exclusively to talk to our kids and make sure, even at 12 years old, our kids know that choking isn’t fun, and IT CAN KILL YOU!  I know it sounds kind of demeaning that I think you, as a parent, have to tell your kid that choking themselves is a bad thing. However, I’m sure there is a couple in Ohio that sorely wishes they had had that demeaning conversation with their boy.

  • Analog Anabel

    By the way, this forum was recently mentioned in the following article:

    http://saveourskyline.livejournal.com/1127.html

  • Moonage

    Good deal.